Rafael Nunez Aponte: Preventing Child Sexual Abuse

Preventing Child Sexual Abuse

Child sexual abuse can be defined as all sexual activities between an adult and an under-age person when the adult exerts power over the child either by force, coercion or persuasion. This is considered as a crime punishable by law and also an action with severe repercussions on the abuser of the victim. 

The statistics and numbers regarding this topic are alarming according to some organizations such as CPIU, which is in charge of educating and helping children and their families about child sexual abuse. This problem is more common than we think, this is why we should keep this information below to prevent child sexual abuse and safeguard the childhood and the innocence in our children.

7 steps to prevent child sexual abuse

Information inspired in the guide created by RANA

·         Know the facts: it’s important to know that abusers often try to find a trustful relationship with the parents of the victims. Do not forget that anyone can be an abuser. A third of the victims are abused by family members, so be aware of those who are close.

·         Reduce risks: this type of abuse often occurs when an adult is alone with the child. Be always present or try to establish situations in which they can be observed by others. Monitor the use of Internet at home.

·         Talk about the topic: Avoid taboo. Talk about child abuse to your children, removing the barrier of silence about the topic. Abusers can manipulate and confuse children to make them believe the abuse is normal or a game.

·         Stay alert: see the origin of different signs such as irritation, swelling, or rash on the genitals, urinary tract infections, abdominal pain or headaches. Recognize emotional signs like withdrawal or depression, self-imposed, anger or rebellion. Sexual behavior is atypical at short ages.

·         Be informed: don’t express disbelief or anger. This makes the child try to justify the abuse and avoid questions.

·         Act when you’re suspicious: denounce and contact social services.

·         Get involved: fight against abuse by supporting laws and organizations to combat child sexual abuse.